Couples often feel angry, hopeless or fearful when starting relationship therapy. They wonder, "Can the relationship be saved? Do I want to save it?"  With the help of a skilled relationship therapist, you and your partner can stop arguing and rediscover the passion.  You can stop avoiding one another and start enjoying companionship and closeness again.  You can build a strong, honest, mutually supportive relationship and sustain it for the rest of your lives. 

Worn out by sarcasm, fighting, or stonewalling?  Missing the old warmth and affection?  Don't wait until it's too late.  

Couples therapy can help you restore trust, connection, and romance in your relationship.  With the help of a skilled couples therapist, you can learn new, more effective ways to speak and listen to each other. If you are stressed out, you can learn to carve out a nurturing, pleasurable space for each other in the midst of your busy week. You can find out how to transform your arguments into opportunities to manage conflict and work as a team.  If there doesn't seem to be "room" for different points of view in the relationship, you can discover new ways to accommodate individual needs.  After an affair, you can work toward healing the hurt and reestablishing commitment and trust.

Most of all, you will learn to recognize what makes things go wrong, change the old patterns, and create the intimate, loving relationship you want.